Don't invest on an expensive or, very expensive item, solely because of its brand status, but buy it because you really want it and it means more than what it's worth in terms of monetary value.
For example,
Don't buy a Birkin, just because it's Hermès.
Don't buy a classic flap bag, just because it's Chanel.
And the list goes on.
Well, let's not forget that the definition of "expensive" is relative too, so for me, these two brands are very expensive but for others, these are merely everyday brands. My point is, it's important to buy it for the right reason and one's best intention.
I remember I got asked by a friend before that, which model of Chanel bag should his mum buy while she doesn't like the iconic leather and chain strap. My answer to him was, if she didn't like it, don't buy it. Choose the bags, but not the brands.
I know brands have come to symbolize many things but if they don't mean anything to you, so it simply means they are not meant for you, maybe not yet.
Truth is, there is definitely peer pressure when it comes to splurging on designer goods but it really comes down to how well an individual can handle it. I can't say that I've perfected the art of resisting temptations but let's not go there for the time being.
Back to the blogpost, it's a story of how the fashion blogger acquired a Hermès Kelly.
Source: http://www.garancedore.fr
I like that she didn't mind the bag was pre-owned and that her longing for the bag actually developed over an extended period of time before she committed to it. I know some people are repelled against the idea of buying secondhand items, especially when it comes to such highly regarded bags. Most people would choose to go for putting their names down on the waiting list and willing to wait for 2 years before they could get their hands on it so they can get the bag brand new, claiming ownership. I think that's fine too. But, for this particular Kelly, it is because the bag was pre-loved by its original owner that, the bag has developed a "character", it has acquired a story - the bag has a history, which makes it so unique, simply one-of-a-kind. And the fact that the name for the color of the bag is actually the same as her real name, it just seems like a beautiful coincidence. Besides, my heart skipped a beat when I read about the part where her partner was disappointed because she had bought it for herself, while he had the intention of getting it for her for Christmas. As cliche as it sounds, I think the thought itself was more than enough already.
:)
Sometimes, it's not about being able to fork out RM30k to spend on a bag, but more importantly, it's about doing it because it has come to mean more than the superficial face value. Which is why, I have decided to wait, for my Kelly because I know it's not the right time yet. I admire the beauty of it but it doesn't feel right owning it at this stage in life. Although, my dad has given me the green light and I have sources that could help with cutting the queue, as far as I'm concerned, I would rather derive pleasure from visualising it. heh.
Who knows, the time might not even come for all I care but I'm willing to wait.
Owing a Kelly still remains on my dreams list. In fact, the longer it stays on there, the more its value will appreciate.
Both monetary and sentimentally.
Just like a piece of acclaimed art.
PS:
Went to the VIP sale at Chadstone Shopping Centre today, I would like to say that...
this is probably the most shopping I've ever done in one-go since I first came to Melbourne donkey years ago and I'm absolutely loving it.
Only allowed myself to buy pieces in bright colors though.
PPS:
So liberated.

1 comments:
wealth is relative.
well said. thats why some people dont understand why people do certain things. no monkey see monkey do.
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